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Posted By: moto

Posted On: Mar 16, 2006
Views: 651
advice needed

ok... so I know girls play hard to get because they don't want to come across as easy or whatever... anyway, I went out on a date with a co-worker a couple of weeks ago, well, it was just coffee during a lunchbreak. I didn't see her at work a few days following, I called to see how she was doing and left quite a few messages. no response. then when she comes back in she acts as if we hadn't gone out and nothing had happened. I asked her if she got my messages and she said no, something was wrong with her message machine... an obvious lie. Then I asked her if she wants to have dinner sometime and she just gave me a really awkward look. Is she playing hard to get or what??


Posted By: adam

Posted On: Mar 16, 2006
Views: 647
RE: advice needed

" I called to see how she was doing and left quite a few messages."

lol no this isnt called playing hard to get...she realized she didnt like you during the date, and now she thinks your crazy cos you kept calling and leaving messages....a very JAMES thing to do


Posted By: James

Posted On: Mar 16, 2006
Views: 633
RE: advice needed

I'm not a stalker. I'm a loner that sits in the basement of his Grandmothers house knowing he has nothing to offer anyone. I have phonophobea(sp?). I never talk on the phone (two years of cancer in hospital = medical bills = constant bill collector calling)


Posted By: Jimmy

Posted On: Mar 16, 2006
Views: 630
RE: advice needed

BS. 2 years of cancer at age 9 = medical bills for your parents = billcollectors for a while and then the debt is put in default and written off.


Posted By: GirlUWant

Posted On: Mar 16, 2006
Views: 623
RE: advice needed

I would say that going to have coffee during a lunchbreak with a co-worker doesn't really sound like a date...that sounds more like hanging out with a co-worker at lunchtime because you are there, and they are there, but unless you specifically asked her out like a date, paid for everything, drove, opened the car door, etc...like a real date, that doesn't sound like a date, but I agree with adam, she isn't interested...sorry...if a girl really likes you, she would be excited that you called again, and you would know it...


Posted By: James

Posted On: Mar 17, 2006
Views: 610
RE: advice needed

Yea, see that was my problem with Beth. We worked together really well so I thought we'd get along after work, and we did if we went only where she wanted to go (shopping) when her boyfriend and her were fighting. I was the he-bitch. Boyfriend that doesn't get any. I would make her feel better so she could go home to him. I can't fault her, he has good health and money. I just wish she'd been honest with me. Trust me, that sucks worse than what is happening to you. At least she's pretty up front with you.


Posted By: Everyone

Posted On: Mar 17, 2006
Views: 605
RE: advice needed

Alcually it sucks much worse for us because we have to here about it from James every week.


Posted By: Everyone

Posted On: Mar 17, 2006
Views: 604
RE: advice needed

*Actually (damn it his spelling is rubbing off on us!)


Posted By: moto

Posted On: Mar 17, 2006
Views: 602
RE: advice needed

She wasn't upfront with me at all... anyway, reading all your posts I think I screwed up by calling her over and over again. I just got paranoid and yelled at her pretty harshly on her voicemail... maybe that scared her. Wonder if I can fix it with a big flower delivery to her cubicle with a secret admirer note or something


Posted By: James

Posted On: Mar 17, 2006
Views: 591
RE: advice needed

NO!! Trust me. Just stop.


Posted By: G-Rod

Posted On: Mar 17, 2006
Views: 586
RE: advice needed

Yea trust him. It is the first time he has ever been right so don't waste that.


Posted By:

Posted On: Mar 18, 2006
Views: 567
RE: advice needed

You yelled at her over voice mail? I didn't know they made fuckups like that these days. What the hell is wrong with you?


 

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