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Posted By: GirlUWant

Posted On: May 22, 2006
Views: 732
Bad Spouse

Bad Spouse is the worst, because then you have to hear about all their dysfunctional crap and then they make up and then they fight and then they lose their job, etc...


Posted By: Dragonmaster

Posted On: May 22, 2006
Views: 731
RE: Bad Spouse

LOL, that sounds just like Beth. She'd come to me when they were in a fight, then they made up, then they fought, over and over again. Then they got married and she had to quit her job, and I haven't talked to her since.


Posted By: Syrgot

Posted On: May 22, 2006
Views: 701
RE: Bad Spouse

I thought you were madly in love with every blade of grass Beth ever walked on?

Bad spouse definetly is lame, it works the same for bad significant other though, even if they're not yet married. I have one fairly stupid friend who called me the other day IN TEARS because "I've been with him for three weeks and its just different... I know he's going to be my husband and now he's talking about wanting to take a break so he can sleep with other chicks... what do I do wrong?"

Oy!


Posted By: GirlUWant

Posted On: May 23, 2006
Views: 696
RE: Bad Spouse

Did you tell her that it sounds like she was more of a booty call to that guy than a potential wife? I am convinced that people should date at least a year before even thinking about marriage, date another year before getting engaged


Posted By: bill

Posted On: May 23, 2006
Views: 687
RE: Bad Spouse

you should also try living together for a while, not during college but afterwards when you are both working... to get an accurate picture of what it will be like when you're married. and don't have sex right away because the man won't respect you or trust you later


Posted By: observant

Posted On: May 24, 2006
Views: 674
RE: Bad Spouse

One of my friends has a bad significant other that she just wont STFU about.
This dude is 20 years older than her, is still married, and has a girlfriend on the east coast.
My friend went into the relationship just wanting booty calls with the guy. When he didn't dump the other women for her, she became obsessed and kept whining about how he didn't love her.
I told her, Yeah, you're right, he doesn't give half a **** about you so dump his ass and get over it.
She's still with him but doesn't whine to me about him much anymore because I always just tell her "I told you so".


Posted By: Dragonmaster

Posted On: May 25, 2006
Views: 671
RE: Bad Spouse

I was until it hit me, I was the perfect boyfriend. I listed to her, went shopping, was so metro that I started watching Martha (shutters) and still didn't get any. Don't get me wrong, thats not what it was all about, I was happy being friends. Anyway, I got her through a tough time with her boyfriend, so well in fact that they got married, then she quit talking to me. Whatever, I don't need that.


 

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