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Posted By: weazel Posted On: Jun 30, 2006 Views: 1287	who initates mostly he does, he is very much into domestic discipline. i feel very fortunate that he cares enough to know i want it and rarely have to ask for it because that takes the fun out of it.
Posted By: William Posted On: Jun 29, 2006 Views: 1301	Spank Me Hard I love to have my bare rear-end whipped with the belt to the point where I confess all of my dirty little secrets and perform oral sex on a man in front of my wife.
Posted By: Katie Spades Posted On: Jun 28, 2006 Views: 1342	who initiates Jake always initiates when it's a punishment spanking but sometimes I'll just get across his lap for plsy.
Posted By: weasel Posted On: Jun 28, 2006 Views: 663	I'm the one who initiates the spankings. I learned that I have to ask for it to get it. He gets in the occasional swat on his own but for the full meal deal I pretty much have to make it real obvious where I want the evenings entertainment to go. He's happy to oblige me now that he's getting used to it, he's an enthusiastic participant. He's just not the one to take us there first, usually.
Posted By: Tigger Posted On: Jun 28, 2006 Views: 687	The flip side... In our household, I almost always initiate not only the spanking but its timing... I love initiating (earning) fun spankings but I REALLY wish he would more often determine the day/time of the actual event. I really HATE doing that, especially since he is so finicky about not feeling coerced, forced or expected to perform. But I've learned that if I don't initiate boldly, it probably will simply never happen. And that's unacceptable. However, as far as actual DD punishments go, he has caught me off guard once or twice with the dreaded acrylic cane, sometimes chasing me around the room in the middle of an otherwise ordinary afternoon, or bending me over the kitchen counter or sink (one of his favorites, though I'm not sure why). And of course there have been a few random swats on the butt, though not nearly enough, initiated by him. So much of his spanko behavior is implied with me left to interpret its meanings...