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| Posted By: Zoe Posted On: Mar 7, 2006 Views: 519 | Single mum cause he slept with someone else I don't really know what to write. I felt really alone when I found out that the man I had always loved decided he wanted some one else even when I was carrying his child. But I have found comfort in my family (they are just like tula's family from 'my big far greek wedding' and also in this website. Anyone who is reading this fear not you are not alone. |
| Posted By: Gabrielle Posted On: May 17, 2006 Views: 507 | RE: Single mum cause he slept with someone else I just found out that the father of my baby is with another woman(or girl). He filled my head with lies and told me how much he loved me. He never even told me, I caught him. I am due in one week and very scared. He broke my heart and can't believe he left me so close to the end. How could he choose another woman over me? I feel he let me and my unborn son down. |
| Posted By: noel Posted On: Aug 4, 2006 Views: 499 | RE: Single mum cause he slept with someone else hi, my name is Noel and i know exactly what your going through right now. my husband begged me for an entire year to have his baby and i finally agreed and 6 1/2 months later i find out that he's cheating on me with some girl from his work and would rather be with her than raise his baby with me. i too am devastated. if you need anyone to talk to about what your going through i'm a good listener you can email me at noel.buchanan@yahoo.com |
| Posted By: Joleen Posted On: Nov 4, 2006 Views: 489 | RE: Single mum cause he slept with someone else My ex left me two weeks before I gave birth to our son for his girlfriend, though he told me there was no one else and he loved me but needed space. He came back four days later and then I found out when I came home from the hospital about the girlfriend. Two weeks later I found out that she was pregnant. It took me another month to get him out of my house and then two months to file for divorce, but I did it. He contested the divorce, saying he wanted me and that she was nothing to him. The bottom line is that he was living with her when he contested the divorce and was sleeping with me. In the end, the divorce is final and though he said he didn't want the baby and will be kicking her out, they are still living together. Meanwhile, I'm left with all the debt he racked up, all the damage from his constant verbal abuse, and all this anger, hurt and pain from what he did. He didn't have a problem leaving our young son for her and their daughter, which is what he always wanted. Now my two sons are left with questions and feelings of inadequecies (my oldest more than my youngest) and I'm left with the same in addition to all those other feelings mentioned above. |
| Posted By: Laura Posted On: Nov 7, 2006 Views: 487 | RE: Single mum cause he slept with someone else I know all too well what you are all feeling. I have been w/ my husband for 8yrs. We've had our problems but yet I believed in the "marriage thing" We have a 2 & 4 yr old. On vacation I found a cell phone, to his girlfriend who was his employee. I threw it in the lake where we were at and thought it was gone. We had just moved a few hours away so I was pretty confident it was over. While making up I ended up pregnant. Him 100% against me having it, I just couldn't go through with an abortion. It has now been 4 months and every day is a work in progress...guess what... tonight I just found that STUPID cell phone I thought was in the bottom of the lake along with 2 condems in his car. SO I guess I'm going to be a single mom w/ a 2 & 4 yr old and one on the way. Does this pain ever go away? |