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Posted By: misti

Posted On: Jan 31, 2007
Views: 686
where is the category "I left HIM when I got preg

I couldbnt properly chose which category of single parent that I am, because as is often thought, a single pregnant mother must have been left by the man. On the contrary, I left HIM! Where is THAT category???


Posted By: Emily

Posted On: Jun 1, 2007
Views: 640
RE: where is the category "I left HIM when I got preg

I did the same thing myself, it was the smartest decision that I have ever made in my life. I am sure their are many others, and it should be a choice on this survey.


Posted By: Shannon

Posted On: Jun 11, 2007
Views: 631
RE: where is the category "I left HIM when I got preg

I also am a woman who left him when I got pregnant. It seems to be an idea that people never consider. They figure either he left you or you are a floozy. I did chose "single mom by choice" since I did choose to leave.


Posted By: Annabelle

Posted On: Jun 20, 2007
Views: 625
RE: where is the category "I left HIM when I got preg

I'm just broke up with the father and it's one of the hardest things I've had to do. We had only been together for only 4 months. I want him back,but he's hurt do I give time?


Posted By: Laurie

Posted On: Dec 2, 2007
Views: 575
RE: where is the category "I left HIM when I got preg

Not sure if he's left me, or if I am fixing to leave him. He does not come home but, a few days a week and does not even consider calling to see if I am O.K. I work 12 hour shifts in a lab. I am 6.5 months pregnant and the emotions are almost unbearable to deal with. I am scared to the point of having panic attacks. I refuse to take anti-anxiety meds. I am so tired. I need the job to pay the bills and the insurance. I am so alone and feeling abandoned. He always said he wanted a family. I guess he changed his mind, I can't. Hugs please....


Posted By: michelle

Posted On: Oct 19, 2008
Views: 528
RE: where is the category "I left HIM when I got p

I had to leave my husband in Israel, as I did not fit in there, did not know the language (although went to school there to learn.) Mainly, I was not treated with love, care or respect by my husband. His family was nice face-to-face but would never invite me places or reach out while my huband worked 14 hour days 6-7 day per week, and cared for his daughters every other weekend (from his previous marriage.) I've been back in the states on and off for the last year, and he came to visit for 3 days--I got pregnant. I tried very hard to get pregnant in Israel, but no success--mostly due to us not getting along, and the stress of that. In my early 40's I am pregnant and it's miracle!!! Although I find myself very depressed about my husband and I . Should I continue this very rocky marriage and then go to Israel with my child and try again? My logical side says "NO", my emotional side says, "Oh, try again...."
I'm currently not working due to so much morning sickness, and would have to start an entire new career up--but what? How will I ever manage? I have no family and no friends here yet. I'm very isolated, and cant' seem to find single mom groups that meet regularly. Any compassionate help?


 

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