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| Posted By: Tia Posted On: Mar 16, 2007 Views: 1030 | Single mom he cheated I know the feeling of being pregnant and finding out your babys father fell for someone else. My story is like everyone elses, 2 weeks after we found out I was pregnant and spread the good news to all he got called into the army, we talked everyday on the phone and I got to visit him for a few weeks at christmas then when I was 9 months pregnant I found out from his "myspace" that he has been with someone else. He still denied it saying she was just a friend and blah blah blahs, then I ask her and she tells me "he told me you two had broken up and im sorry but we are planning on getting married"..........How can guys be so cruel!?! It was very hard to live with and it still is, im due in a week and I still go to bed thinking about what he did to me and wake up thinking about it too. He is coming home in April for 2 weeks to see his daughter and he is bringing her with him, he swears I wont run into her, but just the fact that he is doing this (so she can meet his mom and dad) its devistating. My doctor put me on prozac for the depression and that did nothing but give me bad side affects. Its very hard to get over situations such as these but we woman have to stay strong! Strong for ourselves and strong for our children, one day it will be our turn to shine! and those a$$holes will get whats coming to them! :) |
| Posted By: Bianca Posted On: Jun 12, 2007 Views: 1004 | RE: Single mom he cheated Hey there, just read your story and only can imagine the pain you felt when you first found out and even now, since he really did integrate that women into his life. I am not saying I am sorry for you because that did show his true colors. He needs to be ashamed of how he has treated another human being. By now you should have your child and hopefully be busy with that new chapter in your life. It might take some time to deal with the past and it sounds like you are being strong. Wish you the very best and enjoy the life that you created and that you now are raising. You can make a difference by setting good values and principles in your child's life. |
| Posted By: Mercy Posted On: Jun 2, 2008 Views: 957 | RE: Single mom he cheated Well Im a 22 year old mother of three month unborn baby at the moment.I had been with my boyfriend for a little over three years and after going through a long distance relationship for this time he finally finished up his time in the marine corps and came home to me. I thought It was everything that I had waited for, I was proud and happy until I found out about his big lie. Two months into our relationship he had cheated on me with his ex girlfriend...she fell pregnant and he chose to keep it a secret from me up until one month ago (2 months pregnant). We had planned this pregnancy, what upsets me the most is that he was selfish enough to have me live a lie and to keep such a big secret from me for pretty much the entirity of our relationship. I took everything pretty badly at first...I wanted to keep loving him but who was I kidding? Now my priority is this baby...and with websites like these I find that courage to keep going and live a stress free successful life for me and my baby. To any women out there that believe that they've hit a brick wall like this...you have the strength and courage within you to carry on..believe in yourself because in the end you and that child are all you have. |