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| Posted By: ?????????//? Posted On: Apr 16, 2005 Views: 1139 | I need some help here. Serious. Ok, this is a little long so bear with me please. I may be ****ed. Ok, here's my situation. I'm in love with this girl at work, we've been best friends since September, but this kinda snuck up and bit me in the ass. For a long time I just set back and said nothing, she has a boyfriend and all seems well with them and if she's happy with him I'm good. Well, I get info that he's cheating on her from a very good source, the girl herself. Long story, but lets say chatrooms are bad, mmk? Make sure you know who you are talking to. I don't say anything, she dosent know and they seem to be happy still, although if I ever meet him I'd knock him out. Now though, a few months latter, she is complaining that he always fights with her, over stupid stuff, like her not feeding his dog. Now. he's been jobless for months now and she's paying his bills and all that. He won't go back to work. Her friend isn't talking to her anymore either. So what do I do? I love her and don't want to see her go though what I know is coming. I cant say anything, cause if I do it might look like I wanted them to split up, which i do, but don't if she's happy, does that make scence? Ok, well she needs me as a friend at the moment, but another problem. We work together right, well if I didn't work with her her boyfriend wouldent let us hang out anymore. Which means she wouldent get to talk to me. I'm kinda like a spunge, she tells me all her troubles and then tells me that I make her fell better. Same for me. If I could fix things I would. it's so agravating. anyway, I had another job offer, $1 more an hour, and half the work. So this is my problem. Go for the better job, or stay with my friend. I want to stay with my friend, but should I? i've been thinging about this for weeks and i have untill tomorrow moring to come up with a desicion. Right now I'm staying with her. I need her, plain and simple, but does she feel the same way? If I had more time. I'll always see her as my best friend, she knowes more about me than anybody else, and we have no secrets. This girl literaly saved my life, in more ways than one. Things never work like the movies, do they? Sorrry for the longness. Just need to tell somebody, and get some advice. |
| Posted By: GirlUWant's Daughter Posted On: Apr 16, 2005 Views: 1138 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. I say go to the good job, but tell her how you feel first. If she loves you, she'll ditch the boyfriend and be with you, and if she doesn't...well, there isn't any point in you wasting your time on a girl who will never be more than just your friend. Even if you do love her and it'll be hard, it'd be better to move on. I'm positive that there are many other girls in the world that you could fall in love with and one of them will love you the same...Maybe even one day later she'll realize what she had and find you again. Never let something so unpredictable rule what you do with your life. What if she up and leaves her job to support herself and the boyfriend and you're left lonely in a crappy job you don't like? You'd be kicking yourself in the ass for that one. Sometimes it's better to do the responsible thing instead of the easy thing. |
| Posted By: GirlUWant Posted On: Apr 16, 2005 Views: 1136 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. That is pretty good advice coming from a sixteen year-old! LOL! I hope you aren't Dragonmaster, because you kind of spell like Dragonmaster except my daughter just made a good point...how could any job have half the work of working at a coffee shop! Good point! This just sounds so Dragonmaster... |
| Posted By: GirlUWant Posted On: Apr 16, 2005 Views: 1134 | She likes her boyfriend, DUDE! wouldent dosent knowes Busted! It is Dragonmaster! |
| Posted By: The Almighty Doer of Stuff Posted On: Apr 16, 2005 Views: 1132 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. ?????????//? DRAGONMASTER I think it's Dragonmaster. Note that there's the same number of characters in ?????????//? as there are in Dragonmaster. |
| Posted By: The Almighty Doer of Stuff Posted On: Apr 16, 2005 Views: 1131 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. Damn, the [pre][/pre] tags didn't work... |
| Posted By: GirlUWant Posted On: Apr 16, 2005 Views: 1130 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. My daughter said that you could take the better job and with that sweet raise of $160 a month, minus taxes, so like $120 a month or so, you could buy coffee everyday at Starbucks and just see her that way! |
| Posted By: GirlUWant Posted On: Apr 16, 2005 Views: 1128 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. If he would have used the word mabie, it would have been even easier to tell it was him! Like I said before: Mabie he's born with it, Mabie it's Mabielline! |
| Posted By: GirlUWant Posted On: Apr 16, 2005 Views: 1121 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. Let me guess - the new job is one of those cushy positions at Wal-Mart! |
| Posted By: Seth Posted On: Apr 16, 2005 Views: 1118 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. Here's my advice Dragonmaster. Go for the new job, but find some excuse to keep in touch with Beth... without freaking her out like you did to Kaida, may the poor girl rest in peace (yeah right). When Beth finds out her boyfriend's been cheating on her, maybe if you're really lucky, I mean REALLY lucky... wait what am I talking about. I'm no going to lie to you. It's impossible. But here's some advice on getting her to find out her boyfriend's been cheating on her sooner rather than later: Since you know she or her friends visit this site sometimes, you can anonymously post a message about it, then through various clues within your message, get other regular posters to figure out it's you. You will appear innocent, posting a personal problem rather than malicious rumor, and get your message across to her effectively. Well, congratulations! Tell us how it turns out. |
| Posted By: Beastmaster, the defeater of Dragonmaster Posted On: Apr 16, 2005 Views: 1107 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. Dragonmaster, you need therapy, dude. Why do you come here and dump your stories on us. Discussion boards are bad, too, mmk? |
| Posted By: Sir Piento the 2 Posted On: Apr 16, 2005 Views: 1095 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. If you have dreams about adam, it is clear that you are confuse about your sexuality. |
| Posted By: Dragonmaster Posted On: Apr 17, 2005 Views: 1089 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. ****. I was just trying to get some thoughts withought all the bull**** most of you people put in. This realy bothers me. I am ****ed. She of course is definatly worth staying in starbucks, but the idea that I could go to midnight shift at burger king only working the register and getting a $1 raise.......... I have friends over there to, but it's not the same. I don't think "Nikky" would let me get through a shift withought trying to bang me. It's hard enuf to deal with her for as long as I do at breaks and stuff, much less if I worked with her. Don't get me wrong, I'm not opposed to meaningless sex at this point, but it's not realy for me. (travel plaza means we have a BK, TCBY, starsucks, a pizza shop, and a breakfast place all under one roof) I'm just ****ed. I have to come up with this in an hour. At 6am my boss will be back and she'll want to have one of her chats. I'm ****ed. |
| Posted By: Yot Posted On: Apr 17, 2005 Views: 1079 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. DM, stay at Starbucks. The one one dollar raise is not worth working at Burger King. |
| Posted By: %$ Posted On: Apr 17, 2005 Views: 1074 | RE: I need some help here. Serious. Is this &*$ son? let her go man! if she likes you, you wouldn't come to the internet for dating advice! Dood! Ball up and ask her out if you like her! What do you got to lose? Seriously what? don't over analyze this situation, just ask her out! |
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