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Posted By: Anon

Posted On: Jul 7, 2005
Views: 200
Cheating

Is it cheating on your boyfriend to fall asleep in bed with another guy (that your boyfriend has never met) cuddling with him, and holding his hands? Shouldn't that be innocent enough?


Posted By: jill

Posted On: Jul 7, 2005
Views: 199
RE: Cheating

nope, you are cheating


Posted By: Bakakage

Posted On: Jul 7, 2005
Views: 195
RE: Cheating

Cheating. It even steps further than the "emotional affairs" that have become the latest catch phrase in marital infidelity. Basically that connection you have when cuddling with that guy and falling asleep is the connection reserved for relationships. And cmon adam, im just waiting for your smart ass comment about my answer


Posted By: Joe

Posted On: Jul 7, 2005
Views: 189
RE: Cheating

When the virgin says you are cheating, you must be cheating!


Posted By: GirlUWant

Posted On: Jul 7, 2005
Views: 184
RE: Cheating

So, would you care if your boyfriend was holding hands and sleeping or cuddling with some other girl? Would you think that he was cheating? hmmmm...

If you feel that way about the new guy, then break up with the current boyfriend. Definitely cheating.


Posted By: cuppajane

Posted On: Jul 8, 2005
Views: 182
RE: Cheating

I think you're delusional. Where is your father?


Posted By: Snrub

Posted On: Jul 8, 2005
Views: 179
RE: Cheating

Its not cheating if you are holding hands at a sad movie or funeral, but in bed....are you serious?


Posted By: bakakage

Posted On: Jul 8, 2005
Views: 177
RE: Cheating

Although, i must ask anon, what difference do you feel it makes if your b/f knows or doesn't know the person? Although, i think i agree with earlier posts. If you feel that sort of emotional connection to this guy, its likely your current b/f is lacking. You should be with who makes you emotionally happier.


Posted By: Rox

Posted On: Jul 8, 2005
Views: 172
RE: Cheating

CHEATER!

the fact that you're asking US means YOU think that it's cheating but you want us to tell you "it's ok, you're still a good person"

well, you're not. you're a filthy cheater.


Posted By: adam

Posted On: Jul 8, 2005
Views: 170
RE: Cheating

was there alcohol involved?

bakakage, joe already pointed out the virgin thing. that takes away half of what i coudla said...


Posted By: Anon

Posted On: Jul 8, 2005
Views: 168
RE: Cheating

No alcohol was involved. The reason it makes a difference that he doesn't know the guy is that our friends are always cuddly with eachother. When we're with our other friends it happens all the time, both of us hang on others constantly, but its okay because we both know, see it, and could object if it made us uncomfortable. But he wasn't there this time, and it was with someone who isn't in "our group," it was a friend of another friend. Is there a difference between being guilty and having a guilty concience?


Posted By: adam

Posted On: Jul 8, 2005
Views: 166
RE: Cheating

i dont know why you explained all that to us, when it wasnt even a friend. that doesnt change anything.


Posted By: Syrgot

Posted On: Jul 8, 2005
Views: 164
RE: Cheating

Yeah... cheating is definetly in the eye of the INFIDEL!!! Aren't I helpful? I agree with Adam though, none of what you're explaining is really helping your case at all... but in the meantime whether you cheated or not (Which it sounds like you did), it's not like you nailed someone else / fooled around with / kissed / anything other than snuggling and holding hands... unless of course "I snuggled with someone else" is really code... and then of course you're just a terrible person... shame on you!


Posted By: drew

Posted On: Jul 8, 2005
Views: 160
RE: Cheating

it all depends - what do you mean by cuddling? did he finger you? feel you up? lick your ass?


Posted By: cuppajane

Posted On: Jul 8, 2005
Views: 156
RE: Cheating

wow, these kids today! look at it from a business perspective since you are so emotionally entwined in ignorance. pretend your "group" is a corporation. you have lots of meetings withplenty of talking with no progress other than you know more about your coworkers - good and bad. either you're recruiting, looking for another job, or you're betraying your company. that's bad for business.

**** or get off the pot sweetie, no matter what you say or think you are emotionally involved. I'm assuming you're highschoolish age and if that's the case you need to live by this rule: all guys are dogs. they want only one thing. (i know, you're saying right now, "no they don't, they're my good friends and they respect me blibidy blubidy") just keep some ice cream in the freezer for when you get your feelings hurt and need something cold to put on that burning rash.


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