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| Posted By: Dragonmaster Posted On: Oct 9, 2005 Views: 1452 | You want whipped? Ok, this girl I have a thing for (not sexual strangely, just want to spend lots of time with her WTF?) anyway, we're best friends for almost a year, then we both change jobs and her and her boyfriend move into a different house (on the corner of James and 2nd St., hows that for ****ed up?) So she stops talking to me altogether. No reason, just quits. We had talked about how each of us feels and it boils down to an almost family like thing. So she wouldn't have broken it off for the reason of not wanting to get together or something like that, it wasn't gonna happen anyway. So I go three months without hearing from her at all. I was ****ed for a while, wondering how BFF turned into this. Then she comes to where I work at and wants to talk. Spends some time talking with me and gets me to start coming to where she works at to talk. She apparently has no time outside of work with boyfriend and kid. I find out latter that boyfriend and her were arguing and thats why she wanted to talk to me, because I apparently make it all better. They start getting along again and she stops talking to me again. Then last month she asks me to do their wedding cake, no problem, I think he's an asshole but if thats what she wants I honestly wish them the best. She talks about the cake for a week or two, gets my new phone number (I moved last month) and calls me once. Thats it. It's been two weeks and nothing. I don't even know the date the cake is to be ready, if he didn't back out of it again. (she's Wiccan and he's having her go to a christian wedding from what I gather) Anyway, I've been told by many people at work and otherwise that I should not talk to her, that she's using me whenever her boyfriend and her are having problems. I've always been the safety date so I'm used to it. But should I be ****ed? She has a boyfriend so I don't call her, if she wants to talk I leave that up to her. But why is it that she only comes to me when she needs something? ARG!....... |
| Posted By: Bakakage Posted On: Oct 9, 2005 Views: 1448 | RE: You want whipped? You should be glad she is willing to talk to you at all. obviously you are too obsessed over your relationship with her and its no wonder she doesn't need the added stress of dealing with you while she is in a relationship. No, you shouldn't be mad at her. Plus, any time you are dealing with a really wiccan chick dont expect much. You arent whipped, just pathetic. When you are so lonely and desperate to attach so heavily to a person like that it shows that you really need help. (i know, i am that way but working on it) If you had an opportunity to push that farther than just friends you would have in a heartbeat. Thats why she cant let herself get close to you because she doesn't feel the same way about you. Take what you can get and try not to want more. |
| Posted By: Syrgot Posted On: Oct 9, 2005 Views: 1434 | RE: You want whipped? I'm so confused... I thought Backakage and Dragonmaster were the same pesron and the whole time while reading that post i thought it was dole! |
| Posted By: Syrgot Posted On: Oct 9, 2005 Views: 1432 | RE: RE: You want whipped? I'm so confused... I thought Backakage and Dragonmaster were the same pesron and the whole time while reading that post i thought it was dole! |
| Posted By: adam Posted On: Oct 9, 2005 Views: 1429 | RE: You want whipped? you dont have to read that whole thing to know what it says....after reading the first sentence i realize its the same thing as always i have vomit to clean up now |
| Posted By: comfortably_numb Posted On: Oct 9, 2005 Views: 1415 | RE: You want whipped? Ok, let me start off with: wtf^^ To the first two posts: "take what you can get"? you mean take nothing, because that's what you have! Secondly, she's wiccan??? what kind of person that over fourteen, and about to get married is wiccan???? I'm not even going to elaborate, it's just complete bs. So it basically boils down to this: Both (dragonslayer, bukake), both of you need to go outside for a moment while it's still daylight and look around you, get in touch with reality. What you're likely to find is that the chick is ****ed up, not worth anyone's time except possibly a psychologist's. The other is that you should't be such f#@ki*g losers. Have some self-respect at least, if you're not going to have self-confidence. Dudes: move on. Alright, I'm out, I had to post, this p*ssed me off. |
| Posted By: cosmogirl Posted On: Oct 10, 2005 Views: 1404 | RE: You want whipped? move on! she's not interested in you , she's keeping you around because you're safe and comfortable. I know I've done it! |
| Posted By: Gotta fix the world... Posted On: Oct 10, 2005 Views: 1396 | RE: You want whipped? First we kill all the "wiccans". |
| Posted By: ReTodd Posted On: Oct 10, 2005 Views: 1381 | RE: You want whipped? Yeah, I remember when I was 15. NEXT. |
| Posted By: greg Posted On: Oct 10, 2005 Views: 1373 | RE: You want whipped? guys are suckers... they don't have the foresight to see how a woman could fuck up their life down the road - james, you're just seeing her as she is now but maybe she's not even good enough for you (as hard as that is to believe given that you look like you have down syndrome and whine like a bitch). |
| Posted By: The Hard Truth Posted On: Oct 10, 2005 Views: 1355 | RE: You want whipped? I couldn't be bothered to read the whole post, but from what I gather: Wiccan - Pffft. Ooooo. How "brave" and "contaversial" of her. An obviously desperate plea for attention. She'll grow out of it, probably after her stint as a stripper at some sleazy bar next to the airport. She's ignoring you - You're not "dangerous" enough for the game she's playing right now (i.e. bringing you home won't p1ss daddy off enough). You're only useful when her current boyfriend (you know, the guy she's having sex with) isn't around, or doesn't provide her with the validation she needs to keep acting like an idiot. What a deal. He bangs her, and you provide the "emotional support." What a sap. Moving right along... |
| Posted By: Bakakage Posted On: Oct 10, 2005 Views: 1330 | RE: You want whipped? Good point truth. He is reinforcing her bad decisions by telling her what she is doing is totally okay and supporting her through her own stupidity. If you really were her friend James, you would lay down the truth and point out how screwed up she is and how much her life is going to suck if she dont change. |
| Posted By: ... Posted On: Oct 10, 2005 Views: 1326 | RE: You want whipped? then offer your penis and tell her this is the path to her salvation |
| Posted By: cosmogirl Posted On: Oct 10, 2005 Views: 1314 | RE: You want whipped? you're an enabler! (did I spell that right?) |
| Posted By: Joe Posted On: Oct 11, 2005 Views: 1292 | RE: You want whipped? "probably after her stint as a stripper at some sleazy bar next to the airport." You must be new here. She used to be a stripper but quit to work at Burger King. Also, James is Wiccan. I wonder where he got that idea from? |
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