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Posted By: James

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1114
E-mail cake final

Some of you asked me if I actually did the cake. No, I did not. I had some things brought up to me.

1. No money for materials, even though she said she would.
2. I was not invited to the wedding, even though we are supposed to be best friends.
3. She only talks to me now when she needs me.(even though I'm ok with that if she were to also call once in a while to tell me she's ok and stuff)
4. I'm half blind, so how the **** was I going to make it anyway (good point)
5. She ordered a wedding cake by E-mail. WTF?

Anyway, I had a few others, and some suggestions (gross) but I guess I'm done. It sucks, I thought she would at least come out and tell me if she didn't want to talk to me, or her boyfriend didn't want her to talk to me, whatever, I just wanted the reason. It was painfully brought to my attention that she was just using me anyway and apparently thats what girls do. Anyone want to know the reason I'm a loner? She complains how her x-boyfriend played mind games with her, well I guess she learned her lesson, just applied it wrong.


Posted By: adam

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1111
RE: E-mail cake final

i would very much like to know why you're a loner...id love to hear the kind of BS you can think of

just like kaida, she's gotten scared of your stalking, ha! im suprised she didnt "die" yet!


Posted By: James

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1102
RE: E-mail cake final

People always leave, either by death or choice. Why the **** would you people bother? Could be just me knowing the outcome, but this is why I don't bother to go out and make friends. It's not worth it in the long run.


Posted By: Snail

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1099
RE: E-mail cake final

James, there's plenty of good, worthwhile people out there. You shouldn't let a few bad experiences turn you into a loner. Well done you for realising that this girl doesn't deserve to be put on a pedestal. There is nothing wrong with believing in people or religions or ideas (or dragons i guess) as long as you don't rush into things and that you apply some kind of critical judgement.


Posted By: GirlUWant

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1097
RE: E-mail cake final

The fact that you even come on this board proves that you like to interact with people, so I call Bullspit!



Posted By: green

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1094
RE: E-mail cake final

hey, dont give up...ive been used and led on by girls before, but now im in a stable relationship thats been going on for around a year and 10 months. if i had given up then i would still be alone and depressed, but she makes me feel happy. keep on trying. there is a point in the long run... if u dont try to be happy now then u wont be happy. if u start trying to be happy now then eventually u will become happy. and there ARE crazy nerdy chicks into melding fantasy and reality and discussing the possibility of dragons exsisting and stuff...ive met them. just keep on looking.


Posted By: James

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1086
RE: E-mail cake final

Snail, Dragons did at one time exist, even if only in peoples minds. I've always said that I don't care what people do, look like, or which invisible person they believe in as long as they don't hurt anybody. She ****ed me up.


GirlUWant, You got me there. I'm just tired of all the bullspit people give. :-)


green, I don't want crazy. I've got my choice of crazy girls now. (shutters, Nikkie, Jade, Billy, and what was the others name....)
I'm just looking for someone smart, open minded, and can overlook, or maybe even enjoy all my **** about dragons, swords and all that. Now how to find one here in WV. Relocation is an option. Hell, I was thinking of moving to Canada just so I could get my eyes fixed. Our government sure as hell isn't going to help, and where did that come from.....sorry. I've been thinking about that a lot to.


Posted By: James

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1085
RE: E-mail cake final

Thanks people, really.


Posted By: flubbygub

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1079
RE: E-mail cake final

I recently read about this online dating site that caters to "nerds". They don't allow pictures on the site because they want people to focus on brains rather than looks.

You might wanna check it out.


Posted By: green

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1075
RE: E-mail cake final

"I'm just looking for someone smart, open minded, and can overlook, or maybe even enjoy all my **** about dragons, swords and all that."

not to be insulting, but thats the kind of girl i was talking about...


Posted By: superfly

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1060
RE: E-mail cake final

her boyfriend would definitely not care if she talks to you because he does not see you as any kind of threat. her not talking to you is her call only. so you dropped some dead weight. big friggin deal. being that this wasn't a relationship or anything you should now be able to gather the pieces of your fractured life, set your sights a bit lower and get on with it. and for **** sake, the next stalkee you feel compelled to tell us about, NO NAMES. or make up entertaining names. wax self pitious about some twat de jour all you want, but i don't need to know her name or anything about her, thanx.


Posted By: Julie

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1058
RE: E-mail cake final

James,

At the very least, look at this as an eye-opening experience. Yeah, the whole situation sucks, but you came out on top. You made the decision not to make the cake, which in my eyes is admirable --courageous even, considering her abnormal/abusive dependance on you. You FINALLY made a decision based on your thoughts, not her thoughts. Congrats. She has used your 'friendship' as nothing more than a tool to better herself. You finally seem to be 'getting it'. Look out for yourself first.


Posted By: Julie

Posted On: Oct 26, 2005
Views: 1057
RE: E-mail cake final

LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF FIRST.


Posted By: adam

Posted On: Oct 27, 2005
Views: 1055
RE: E-mail cake final

"Dragons did at one time exist, even if only in peoples minds."
if they only "existed" in peoples minds then they didnt exist at all

seriously james, go on a shooting rampage, kill her, kill all of kaida's friends, and possibly kaida...kill everyone in your life including your mother and then hide in the mountains of WV and then you will become most happy with yourself and youll realize that your actually God and your the most powerfull person in the world
then when a pack of grizzlies attack and eat you, youll be part of "the great circle of life"...theres your purpose


Posted By: Snail

Posted On: Oct 27, 2005
Views: 1053
RE: E-mail cake final

Great idea Adam!, i have a better one though. Why don't you and james do what they did in that hitchcock film, where each person kills the problem in the other persons life. You could those peeps you just mentioned and james could kill the biggest problem in your life, ie you.


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