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Posted By: ????

Posted On: May 11, 2004
Views: 484
RE: not much mon-ay

how could there be 162 views of the last post in 5 minutes.. what the freck


Posted By: BakaKage

Posted On: May 11, 2004
Views: 477
RE: not much mon-ay

Whoa, odd. As for my experience, i have none. Most of my knowledge comes from research (yeah, book smarts doesn't stand up to experience, but likewise some guys get experience but dont care to learn about it) and i also have an abnormal mental state that allows increased abilities of empathy so i can feel what others feel with a good deal of accuracy (and in some cases...thats not a pleasant thing as most of the people i have tried to help in the past had felt more than thier share of pain, and even teh small percantage of which i felt was more than i would ever like to have myself) But also, it gives me the ability to understand the sensations of other peoples bodies (granted, being male there are some limitations, but i can understand better than 80% of the men out there) No, the clitoris is not the only spot for stimulation, also the Gspot (though many men have difficulty finding it, and if the women dont know what to expect many of them cant determine where it is at either) but only the lower 1/3 of the vagina has nerve endings that allow it to be stimulated. Which is why the average woman feels anything beyond 7 inches is just worthless.
As for the women having to be comfortable, i understand that. I have a friend who was always afraid to have an orgasm because she felt uncomfortable with her settings and the feeling like she was loosing control of her body scared her to the point of losing all interest at the time. And a lot of women wont feel comfortable asking thier partner to change thier position feeling it would be an insult saying "yeah...this aint doing it. can you try something else?" (which is how all too many men would take it)
Although i do find the comment that women think about sex just as much as men pretty hard to swallow. Some women do, ill admit. But they make up a small portion of the populus. A good deal of men think about sex any time they see a woman even remotely not ugly. Whether it be on TV in public or if they are just thinking randomly. Women normally require some sort of mild stimulus to start thier sex drive, whereas with men it runs until something turns it off (seeing a 300lbs woman bending over, seeing a girl with unbearably hairy legs...etc)

Return fire. I live to learn.


Posted By: perv

Posted On: May 11, 2004
Views: 476
RE: not much mon-ay

woa

I want to hook up with Aurora.


Posted By: Sure

Posted On: May 11, 2004
Views: 470
RE: not much mon-ay

Dear BakaKage,
You think you can read people's feelings so well? Sry not arguing with someone who thinks he's emotianly psychic. If you gain most of your knowledge from a few friends and a book or two, and ofcourse your increased abilities of empathy, how could anyone argue!


Posted By: ayearpsent

Posted On: May 11, 2004
Views: 467
RE: not much mon-ay

"sure" i think you need to be more open minded...i think all of you need to be more open minded about everyones opinions and comments

god damn


Posted By: Dave

Posted On: May 11, 2004
Views: 459
RE: not much mon-ay

First off, LJ. You jumped to conclusions. I said MOST. not all, I am not steriotyping, I am generalising. There is a difference. Most girls that I have ben associated with, not just the ones that I have had intercourse with, would agree to that statement. And the arguments that you post would lead me to believe that you have low self esteem, and have ben hurt a lot emotionally. You seem as though you are jealous that people don't look at you in that way and you spite the ones because of it. And your probably every bit of 16, just a shot in the dark.

Aurora, first off I would like to say that you have a lovely way of twisting my words around.

"But there is more nerve endings in the clitoris alone than there is in the whole penis."
That is a fact. I could give you specs and what have you but that would require me to do more research on the net. I don't bother checking the web and what have you for information on my posts. takes too much damn time. No matter how many times I read that statement I still cant understand how you could say that I am saying that The clitoris is the sole provider of sexual stimulation. But that also proves my point that you are close minded. You don't even take the time to read my posts before attacking it. You just hear what you want to hear then attack.

I will give you this though. I do agree with your comment that the girl must be into the mood, her surroundings ext. When a girl is not in the mood it is less likely that she will experience an orgasm. And there are some girls out there that think about sex quite often. But don't wish to share that with the public for fear of being labeled a slut or a nympho

The only piece of my information that is second hand is the information of nerve endings. Everything else is just my observations that I have picked up in my experience. Although I am not one to brag about my extensive sexual experiences Aurora. Society has a name for people like that.


Posted By: Me

Posted On: May 11, 2004
Views: 456
RE: not much mon-ay

Being a woman who has had "relations" with a man who has a large member, I can tell you this:

IT HURT!!! Give me the average size, please.


Posted By: Aurora

Posted On: May 11, 2004
Views: 449
RE: not much mon-ay

Dave,
I apologize for the misunderstanding; my comment about the clitoris was geared more towards Baka than you.

Secondly, even if you have acquired this knowledge through observations, that does not make it first hand information. Essentially you are still an outsider to anything going on in the female body. So while you may have developed theories as to why thing occur, please be mindful of the fact that you have never, and most likely will never, experience anything a female goes through.


Sure,

I am assuming it has just become policy to find something wrong with my posts and that is why you picked on my comment about a woman being comfortable. The reason I believe this is because a woman who is not comfortable with herself, i.e. she is concerned that she isn’t doing something right, or worried that her butt is too big, or even worried about making too much or too little noise, will not be able to let herself relax into the act fully. If a woman is not comfortable with her sexuality, then she won’t enjoy sex. I am not saying this is a steadfast rule, but for a woman who may be having trouble reaching orgasm, perhaps she should evaluate how at ease she is in the situation.


Posted By: Dave

Posted On: May 11, 2004
Views: 448
RE: not much mon-ay

This is probabally not true with all women but I must say that I do agree on the most part. I cant remember exactally who told me that but I have heard that than can be a problem amongst females. And I wholeheartedly accept your apology. For its the first time I have ever heard you admit even a slight hint of fault.



Posted By: Sure

Posted On: May 12, 2004
Views: 438
RE: not much mon-ay

Aurora,
Ok maybe she won't enjoy it, but originally you said she wont have an orgasim, you can reach orgasim in an uncomfortable position, even extremes such as rape. But ok i get what you mean now, so alright it could be a problem for some reach orgasim.


Posted By: superman

Posted On: May 12, 2004
Views: 434
RE: not much mon-ay

u all bitch too much

go **** each other


Posted By: BakaKage

Posted On: May 12, 2004
Views: 431
RE: not much mon-ay

Sure-
Those cases are pretty rare where women can experience orgasm in extremem situations. Usually that revolves around women who have the fetishisms or are turned on by the fear and adrenaline as some women are. For the average woman they have to be comfortable with themselves and their situation to give way to an orgasm. For any guys, think back to the first time you got off. You damn near lose all control of you body cuz you dont know what the hell is going on. For women, who dont experience orgasms as much as men, they are still basically in that first year or two of men.

Aurora-

Likewise all your information on men is second hand. You dont honestly know how much men think about sex, and even with knowledge of the abundance of nerve endings in the penis you still have no idea how it feels. So our arguement is just as valid, or invalid, as yours.

And as for empathy, there also is a lot attributed to simply reading people, their responses to stimulus, syntax, speech, etc. If you listen to Love Line at all the guys on that show can normally peg a person down with relative accuracy. They could figure out the persons age, sexual history, and to some extent list off emotions and thoughts the person commonly has, simply because as individualized as humans are there are still a lot of commonalities between large groups of us. Its somewhat like stereotyping, but instead of a physical appearence being used as basis to determine thier actions, its thier actions used as a basis for thier personalities and emotions.


Posted By: milo

Posted On: May 14, 2004
Views: 405
RE: not much mon-ay

Another democrat for Superman!


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