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| Posted By: Chris Drew Posted On: Sep 29, 2004 Views: 510 | RE: Getting the girl. Thats pretty depressing, sorry for all that pain you've been through. But here's my advice: Stop being a drama queen! Girls are ten times better than guys at realizing who's coming at "an angle" and they'll pick up on your baggage. Just get over it- I know it's hard. And don't tell girls about your history with girls until after a few dates and you know it's serious. Never try to get too serious too fast. Clingy, dependant guys creep girls out. |
| Posted By: Granny K Posted On: Sep 29, 2004 Views: 503 | RE: Getting the girl. Ok, if you are really serious about actually going out on a date with a girl [none of the guys in my generation seem to be serious], I suggest you get offline, go out and find a nice girl and Ask Her Out in the following manner: Dragonslayer: You seem very interesting [or nice --pick a positive adjective] Would You Like To Go Out On A Date With Me? [giving her your phone number and telling her to call you is not asking a girl out, it's giving her direction. There's a difference.] Girl: Ok [Suggest an activity, day and time] If the Girl says: No, then move on and ask another girl out. [And don't take it personally, she could be like Jaylo and have issues with men.] When you go out with a girl on the first date and you actually want to have a second date: -Don't mention marriage [you'd be surprised]. -Keep it light -Ask her about her hobbies, as well as telling her about yours -Don't don't DON'T mention your ex-girlfriend. If she asks, say: I'd be more comfortable talking about her after I've gotten to know you better [implying future activities together]. -Be yourself, you seem like a nice kid. -Be sincere. Because you are the guy, you are also the hunter. You need to take the initiative and ask girls out. This is difficult sometimes, but believe me, if you do take the initiative, the girls will really appreciate it. Granny K |
| Posted By: dragonmaster Posted On: Sep 30, 2004 Views: 492 | RE: Getting the girl. umm, you missed the point. Let me explain. "Girl: Ok" Offline I don't talk to girls I don't already know. I'm very shy and quiet in the real world. I only know 4 girls by name, and two of those have wanted to date me. "Because you are the guy, you are also the hunter. You need to take the initiative and ask girls out. This is difficult sometimes, but believe me, if you do take the initiative, the girls will really appreciate it" Please, I may be old in my ways but the girl has to come after me. Thats why I'll be alone for awhile, girls don't go for the dependable guys untill their late 20's, I'm only 21. I want a goth girl, not scary goth, but goth. I wont just date anybody, I'm fairly picky. There was one a few months ago that tripped my fancy, but i then found out she was only 16. made me feel all sick and old. she is very smart though, going to collage at 16 and all. It's not that i have too high standards, i just have a feeling when it's someone that i'm compatable with, I've only felt that twice before, the first being the strongest of course. i'm sorry for starting this post. |
| Posted By: C9P5AU8NAA Posted On: Sep 30, 2004 Views: 490 | RE: Getting the girl. you need to really give it a rest. you are so busy sayin how TK is gay, which he isnt, you arent talkin bout anything else! |
| Posted By: Dr. Zhivago Posted On: Sep 30, 2004 Views: 490 | RE: Getting the girl. Hey Dragonmaster, I'm glad to hear that you are thinking about leaving your fortress of solitude. That's definitely a step in the right direction. I got hurt pretty bad in the relationship arena this summer and I definitely know how it feels to just want to give up and be alone. I don't want to get hurt again either but I'm seeing other people and now it doesn't seem as bad as it did. A few months ago I couldn't imagine ever being without my ex and it scared the crap out of me that I would be depressed about it forever, but I suffered through it and in retrospect it was probably a good thing. Alright buddy, take care of yourself... |
| Posted By: dragonmaster Posted On: Oct 1, 2004 Views: 479 | RE: Getting the girl. i'm glad your ok then. but if for some reason you find out you still love her in the future, she is still alive, there is a posibility that you could get back together, and if not she's happy. ****, sorry, I'm doing it again. |
| Posted By: PooperScooper Posted On: Oct 1, 2004 Views: 478 | RE: Getting the girl. Girls suck niceguy.dearingfilm.com www.rulymob.com Click here to find out why. |
| Posted By: Dr. Zhivago Posted On: Oct 1, 2004 Views: 476 | RE: Getting the girl. Of course I still love her, but what's done is done and I've moved on to other pastures. I'd rather not think we would be back together again because I don't want to get back into that frame of mind. |
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